‘TEAM MAFISI’ A MAJOR KILLER TO WOMEN DIGNITY.

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 ‘TEAM MAFISI’ A MAJOR KILLER TO WOMEN DIGNITY.

During my good old days when I was a kid and as I grew up the society upheld women with so much dignity. Ladies would be seen as a species that had so much capability. This even led to campaigns against early marriages, girl child education, equal positions of the ladies in all job positions thus you would not be surprised to see a lady as a tout, mechanic or even driver professions that were more commonly associated with men. The war did not end there they went further to ask for a representation in all government institution and on arrival of our new constitution it was granted to them and as they drank the gift of what they worked so much for, they became civilized they stopped wearing the old lessos and vitenges that were poorly tailored and not any better to a maternity dress and replaced them with modest, fancy and good looking clothes.

All this is not my concern, my concern goes out to those men who have proved to be so mean and insensitive to women you would think they do not have mothers or sisters back at home. They call themselves ‘team mafisi’. A term that was coined by those jobless and useless men who wake up in the morning and even before brushing their teeth that they had been chewing ‘mogoka’ all night long go to a joint they commonly refer to ‘jobless corner’ and that where they waste their whole day busy gossiping and saying all kinds of things to any lady that will probably pass by their joint. They believe they are the kingpins of the hoods in Nairobi and are untouchable.

Over the years this wankers have normalized their primitive ideologies and made it seem right to look at women sexually each time they came past them in the name of team mafisi. This has quickly spread over the country faster than bush on fire to every part of the country. Surprisingly, even the cooperate world has been contacted the cancer and is now promoting the team mafisi ideology that has completely tarnished the dignity of women. Safaricom which is the leading communication company in Kenya had an advertisement that was meant to promote their brand yet was so insensitive in promoting the ideology that was a major killer to woman dignity. M.C Jessy of Churchill’s show spin-off, Churchill Raw and Shaffi Weru of Kiss 100 are two other widely accepted personalities who have promoted this lost and barbaric ideology of team mafisi. M.C Jessy even refers to himself as the chairperson of Mafisi sacco. Due to this, team mafisi has widely been embarrassed and has seen to growth of different levels of Fisi’s.

Ghetto Fisi’s

These are those folks who are brought up in hoods such as Kibera, Dandora, Mathare, Jericho, Kawangare and all other ghetto hoods in Nairobi and all across the country. This is where the term Mafisi sacco was coined. Most of this ghetto folks have not seen the school doors past the sixth grade who are idlers and can do nothing better than sit down all day in , and are initiated to streets gangs as early as 13 years. They are cultivated with a Ghetto mentality (They are made to believe that they ought to command respect and make an impact regardless of what they do and regardless of the impression they create). They are hooked up to drug abuse. Believe me when I use the term drug loosely because it is more than just drugs but substance that completely impairs their judgment to less than that of an animal. Ghetto Fisis only view women in a sexual way only. They are perverts and do not have any respect to ladies most of them are the ones who will undress women in public places in the name of a bad dressing code. They walk on the streets smacking women on their bottoms out of the corrosion that drugs has done to their brains that they cannot think straight.

Middle class fisi

This are those people brought up in hoods such as buruburu, langata, Umoja, Ngong Road, South B and other middle class hoods. Unlike their counterparts in the Ghetto, this people are quite cautious about their dressing. They wear Jordan outfits, Versace and many other designer clothes but most of which are conterfeits that are close to original. They pretend to know how to treat women and would even walk in town with only a vest on and give his trench coat to a lady he just met on the streets. Ooooh and did I mention men really pretend not to see telemundos, then surprise this men do watch them quietly in their rooms so as to get petty tips on how to handle a lady. They spoil ladies with all kind of things with a single motive to get to lay her down and since the ladies are easily compelled to cheap cheap stuff and made to believe that they care, they easily fall into their traps and KABOOOOM… the guy will be talking all over how he layed you down and all sort of things he did to you some true some lies but mostly lies coz they always want to be seen as the superior than his other folks. Did I mention that this guys will do anything to get you. This are the guys who will spike your drink with mchele if you failed to agree to his terms. They will also pretend to be very genuine and buy you drinks all night while he is hardly drinking in the name of he is the one who will be driving you home on a car they hired and are lying to you it theirs so that you can black out and he will do all sort of things to you.

Corporate fisi

Now this are the ones who we always hear on our tellys and radios. This are public figures and well known personalities. They use their personality to slain stupid and thick girls who always want to be associated with big names. Woe unto you poor girl coz the guy will enjoy himself on top of you a couple of rounds with his belly that looks like a calabash that has been cut halfway and leave you and the next time you will be meeting he won’t even be recognizing your face let alone your name. This characters are well known and do not bloody care of what you say about them.

This are the three types of men who will go poking every hole they find and would even go an extra mile to spike you in order to get their satisfaction and have masqueraded their character in the name of Team Mafisi Shame on you. You should man up and give a little dignity to our ladies. They are our mothers and sisters and you have no choice but to respect them. If manning up costs you to pull off your D*** then do that. And a piece for you ladies and let it sink into your heads. No man will take you serious if you cannot take yourself serious. If you are sell your body away for a couple of drinks or a Pizza that he buys to you on Tuesday( he actually sells the extra pizza he gets for Terrific Tuesday and gets his money back) what will make him trust you with his house and businesses in the future wake up from your slumber and stop being nutters.